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The mother, who has autism and chronic pain, says she has had to set limits with their daughter out of necessity, while her husband has always given in to tantrums and demands. She is considering whether to address the issue with him, hoping for a united parenting approach. The advice column suggests she should talk to him, but not as a confrontation, and work together to set consistent expectations for their daughter's independence.

The column also mentions a separate letter from a 22-year-old who moved out at her father's request and now faces demands from her stepmother and stepsister. "loves him more."